Envisioning Your First Fertility Clinic Visit
At your first fertility clinic visit you’re bound to have a lot of questions. And as we all know, it’s easy to forget all of them when you’re sitting face-to-face with your doctor. Preparedness is key to a successful visit.
Start your list well before your visit
Several days before your first fertility clinic visit, start a list of questions you would like to ask. Jot down additional questions as they occur to you over the following days. Either keep them in a notebook that you can take with you or enter them into a computer document that you can print out and take with you to the appointment. Leave lots for room for notes!
Below are a number of questions you can use to get started. You can print these out and take them to your first fertility clinic visit, as well.
And remember: if you don’t understand anything your doctor or other staff member tells you, let them know so they can go over it again. The goal of your first fertility clinic visit is gather information and forge a relationship of healthy communication.
What testing will my partner and I have to go through prior to fertility treatment?
- How long will it take to diagnose our infertility problem?
- How long will it be from when we are diagnosed to when we can begin treatment?
- Is there any sort of waiting list for the treatment?
Where do we go from here?
Following are questions you can edit and tailor to your needs once your doctor has finished testing and is recommending specific treatment options:
- How long should I expect to undergo treatment?
- What percentage of your patients is in my age group?
- Do you participate in clinical trials? If I am eligible, will I be able to participate?
- Are you comfortable with my doing my own research and possibly suggesting a particular course of treatment?
- What are your live birth success rates?
- What surgical procedures might you recommend for my partner and/or me?
- How many ovulation induction cycles with or without IUI do you recommend before moving to IVF?
- How does your office handle weekend inseminations? Are they done here or at another site? Do you do the weekend inseminations?
- How many IVF attempts will you make?
- What is your IVF success rate per embryo transfer? How many embryos do you generally transfer?
- When undergoing IVF, will you perform all egg retrievals and embryo transfers? If either of these are not always performed by you, who will perform them?
- When undergoing IVF, will egg retrieval be performed at your office or through the outpatient clinic at a hospital?
- How will you monitor my treatment and how often?
- Will you always perform treatment monitoring or is it possible that on occasion another physician or a nurse might monitor?
- How is your practice affiliated with the embryology lab? Are the lab procedures done here or off site?
- What are the credentials of your laboratory and your laboratory director?
- What do you think about complementary medicine such as massage, acupuncture, and relaxation?
- What are your office hours and are you available after hours and on weekends?
- How will I communicate with you? Do you return phone calls the same day? Do you call back personally if I request?
- What role does the nursing staff play? Do they return calls or do you?
- If necessary, do you have access to donor egg, embryo and sperm programs?
- How do you handle insurance pre-approvals?
- If my insurance doesn’t cover testing and treatment, can we make arrangements for a payment plan or credit card payment?
Knowledge is power! At your first fertility clinic visit and all subsequent visits: ask, ask, ask! It’s your body and your dream to become a parent. Being an active participant in your treatment will give you the best possible chance to realize your dream of having a baby.Sources